Coping With Retirement

For many, retirement is a dream; hours of relaxation, family time and new activities. But for others, coping with retirement and the transition from the working world is difficult. It is important to make the most of this fantastic time of your life and although retiring is a big adjustment, planning will ensure that you make the transition with ease.  Here are some ways in which you can prepare to make retirement the best time of your life:

1. Manage Your Finances

Financial worries are something that is not unique to retirement years. Most of us worry about our cash flow throughout our working lives. If you are considering retirement or have just made the transition, it may feel difficult to contemplate your future life without your main source of income. The key to coping with this is planning. Whether you have been financially preparing for retirement from a young age or haven’t thought about it at all, take the time to sit down and really plan it out. Read our post on retirement planning for further advice.

2. Keep Socially Active

Many people move away from friends and family to start a new life in retirement. This is a great opportunity to enjoy a new environment and a new way of life. While this is the opinion of many, some people may feel social isolation and find it difficult to meet new people when they are not working. Social interaction is essential. Make sure that you are proactive in your choice to join new clubs and groups. Connecting with others is the key to a long and healthy life. If you are living in a retirement development, there are many opportunities to meet new people and try new things. Have a look at our post on the facilities we have for more information.

3. Adjusting to a New Routine

The ability to do your own thing is great, but having this new retirement routine (or lack of routine) can be a difficult adjustment to make. Just because you are not working does not mean you have to sit at home all day watching box sets (unless you want to!). In fact, your retirement can be just as relaxed or as active as you want it to be and that’s the beauty of it. The opportunities for new hobbies, activities and learning opportunities are endless. Part of coping with retirement is creating a routine that works for you. Retirement allows you to spend time in a way that you love. For ideas on activities to take up, read our post on retirement hobbies.

4. Ensuring that you Feel Valued

If you are used to being in a position at work where people rely on you, retiring can really reduce your sense of self-worth. It is important not to let this get you down and not do anything to change it. The reality is, there are many things you can get involved in that can help to regain your confidence. Taking a bigger role in the lives of your children and grandchildren can bring a lot of happiness to later years. If you are a natural leader, try setting up a new group or club in your community. One of the most popular activities for retirees now is volunteering. Giving back to your local area gives you a sense of personal achievement and allows you to help others.

5. Maintaining Happy Relationships

Many couples work in full time jobs outside of the home and have done for most of their lives together. This allows for a healthy balance between individual lives and the relationship. Retirement can put a strain on relationships as you may be spending a lot more time together, especially if you have moved away from family and friends. It is important to respect each other’s space and continue to have your own goals and interests. Try getting involved in different activities and social groups. This will allow you to continue to be your own person and allow you to value the times you are together. 

Retirement is a time that is dealt with very differently depending on the type of person you are. Planning is always key to having a happy retirement. Give some time to think about what you will do after retirement and you will experience a much easier transition. Don’t expect for things to feel perfect straight away. It’s never too soon (or too late) to map out your dreams and goals for your later life.

 


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